On What Men Want

What Men Want In A Woman No 66: A Master

What men want in a woman is someone who is going to be a master to them. Of course, this doesn’t mean that us guys are all slaves. You will never read this in any relationship book, but us guys ultimately are in relationships to be controlled. Why would we choose to marry one particular woman over the over hundreds of millions of women out there? Ultimately, it’s because she knows how to make us happy. What makes a man more happy than anything else in the world? Having someone to fight for and defend, by virtue of our provider instinct. Here’s how to be a better master to your slave, I mean husband.

1. Don’t Abuse Your Power

I don’t seem to be doing too many favors for my fellow men out there by saying that we’re slaves. However, I’m only saying this because it’s what I have found to be true in all the successful relationships with friends that I have observed, as well as my own.

Women who wear the pants in the relationship are way in over their heads. Men let them do so. If women try to show their dominance, men will simply ignore them. You can be our master, but you have to respect us.

2. Shared Control

A marriage isn’t a real master/slave relationship per se. The control has to be shared. Women have to ask things from men and it has to occur vice versa as well. Otherwise, the relationship will head straight towards a divorce.

If women simply ask men for everything, then the value of the man will drop. Ladies, let your man know that you can and will do certain things for him. Sometimes, us guys get complacent and we forget that it’s fair. If it’s getting too one-sided, do the right thing and give him a bit of power.

3. We Want To Be Controlled

Marriage gives power to both the man and the woman but there’s always one thing that’s universally true when someone chooses to get married and that’s they actually want to serve the other person.

This is particularly true for men. We want to serve the wife and to be controlled by her. We feel like we’re needed if she chooses us to do things for her. Just remember, respect always has to be mutual. It takes as much strength to follow as it does to lead.

What men want in a woman is someone who knows how to control us. Remember, us men want to be controlled, but if the woman feels that the relationship is one-sided, she should give us a bit of power back so that the man realises that it takes two to tango.

About the Author

Which is better: relationship advice from a woman who’s had a lot of experience with men, or having the man of your dreams tell you exactly what you have to do to never make him look at another woman ever again?

The second thing is too good to be true, but if you visit http://HerSecretWeapon.com, you’ll learn something just as powerful: the ability to find out what you’re doing that’s making men not want to be close to you.

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