What Do Men Really Want

This question is for the men (preferably over 30) Do men really want us to hold out on the sex?

Does the cliche “Why buy the cow when the milk is free” really apply this day and age? If the relationship is really going well, do men secretly want women to hold out on the sex? I thought as long as you were in an exclusive relationship with someone it was okay. But if you’re sexin someone constantly or even occasionally, does this mean he will never marry you? I mean woman like sex too.

I think this idea is a myth promoted by people who believe the purpose of sex is only procreation. Personally, I don’t believe that at all. Sex is fun and it feels good. It has great risks, so it requires a mature mind to do it safely. But sex is good for you both, so do it — just do it safely.

If a guy has a strong need for sex, and has opportunity, he will likely find sex. If not from you, then from someone else. (btw, this goes for women too!) Hopefully you’ve discussed this. If not, do it today. In fact, don’t even consider getting married until you both have had an honest discussion about all your needs. This include sex, money, housing, travel, hobbies, children, jobs, spiritual, entertainment, exercise, extended-family, etc. Marriages fail, because of unmet needs.

The real deal is that men don’t want a failed marriage. And men want to get married when they find a woman who is so amazing to him that he wants her to remain in his life forever.

So by starting this conversation you will help him see you are the kind of women with whom he wants to spend the rest of his life.

Good luck!

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